Every year on the first Friday of April since 2004, Egypt has celebrated Orphans Day. This is the only day of the year when Egypt stops and takes notice of over 1.7 million marginalized orphaned children.
Many people are inclined to visit orphanages at this time of year. BECAUSE spoke to the Wataneya Society for the Development of Orphanages to learn about their recommendations. Here, we share a list of Dos and Don'ts so that you and the children can make the most out of your visit.
DON'T call it an orphanage. Home is a much nicer alternative. It is their home at the end of the day, and they don't need a constant reminder of their parentless status.
DO listen to the children when you are there. The time you spend should be about them and the activities they want to do. They are not there for your entertainment. On the contrary—you are there for theirs. Try to involve their older siblings in activity planning so they don't feel left out.
DO communicate with the caregivers. They are the ones who look after the children and deserve acknowledgment for what they do.
DO remember that you are a guest in someone's home, so you need to respect their privacy just as you would in any home. You also need to regard any house rules they may have.
DO ask for permission from both management and individual children before taking any pictures.
DON'T make promises you can't keep. If you intend to return again, say that you will try. You don't want to be just another transitory person in the children's lives. Lower expectations are always better than disappointments.
In the end it is not about how many hours you spend, what counts is how you spend that time and how much fun you both have.
Image courtesy of Wataneya.